hawkwrench Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 (edited) On Tuesday afternoon my dad suffered a massive heart attack and died. It was a total shock to me hearing over the phone to come to the hospital because he had died. I always knew this day would eventually come because death is a part of life, but I still dreaded it. My dad was my hero and my role model. Dad was a retired LTC in the US Army, a Vietnam vet and was the chief of police of Walton, Ky for 13 years. I always wanted to be like him. We shared a lot of things in common because of that, including modeling. He never was a big detailer, but just put them together and painted them. I remember one time, I walked in on him while he was building a monogram 1/48 scale B-17G. My life will forever be changed because he's gone. I'll always cherish my memories of him and I will meet him again someday in heaven! I love you Dad and I miss you! Tim Edited March 20, 2014 by hawkwrench Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Check Six Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 (edited) Oh man; Sorry to hear of your loss . Prayers for you and family. Thank you for serving our country, LTC . Edited March 20, 2014 by Check Six Quote Link to post Share on other sites
chuck540z3 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Condolences man. Sometimes life- and death- really suck. On the very bright side, you obviously loved your father, which not everyone can say. I loved my Dad, but I know of many who didn't . You and I are the lucky ones. Hang in there. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
fasteagle12 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 So sorry to hear about your dad. My dad also died from a heart attack back in 2006. It isn't easy but the pain eases over time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JB2013 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 :( May he rest in peace. My condolences to you and your family as well as his friends. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
vimana Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 I'm very sorry to hear of it. I'll remember you in my prayers. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
82Whitey51 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Sorry to hear of your loss. My dad died back in '05 in a similar manner. I too picked up model building from him...I didn't touch a model for about 6 months after. My wife said to me one day..."You know, he'd be pissed if he saw you not enjoying your hobby..." and that got me back at. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Exhausted Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Thanks to your father for his service. I'm sorry for your loss. All paths in life lead us to death. What matters is how you touch others. -Oscar Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Just4kiks Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 55Â O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? 56Â The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law. One day you'll be able to say this. Sorry for your loss, but be happy about the time you did spend with him, some people never had a dad to know... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Crazy Snap Captain Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Condolences man. Tough times but hopefully good memories may ease the pain. RIP. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Don Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Heart felt condolences. I lost my Dad to an unexpected heart attack when I was just in my early teens. Deepest sympathies. . Don. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NavyPhantoms Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 I share my condolences and prayers with you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
flanker27 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 So sorry to hear that. Prayers and condolences to you and your family Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Brutus Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Sincere condolences to you and the family. Sorry to hear of your loss. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
richter111 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 I am really sorry for your loss, like you my dad got me into modeling as a kid. Its good when fathers pass on a lifetime of happiness and memories to their kids. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boom175 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 I'm so sorry for you, I've been there myself. It sucks plain and simply sucks! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
toadwbg Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Sorry man. I dread that phone call some day. Thanks for sharing your story. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hornet97 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 So sorry. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GreyGhost Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 So sorry, you and yours have my prayers ... -Gregg Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mlicari Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 I'm sorry for your loss! You obviously have great memories of him, and so he will live on. Mike Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jinxter13 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 My condolences to you, your family and his friends, may God grant you solace, and help you thru this most difficult time, and may your father rest in eternal peace. My prayers for all concerned. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stevehnz Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 My condolences to you & yours Tim. I lost mine 12 years gone now. Even though I had the luxury of knowing it was time, I miss him still. Like you I know the time will come when we meet again. Stay strong in the love & caring of so many in your life. Steve, Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ChippyWho Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 Tim, what you wrote about your father is a really great tribute to an obviously great dad! Sincere condolences, of course, and know that you only really lose someone when you stop missing them every damn day... Best from us all. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hawkwrench Posted March 21, 2014 Author Share Posted March 21, 2014 Thank you all for your kind words and prayers. The past few days have been I guess surreal in that it still hasn't quite hit me that dad is gone. The viewing is tomorrow and the burial will be in full military honors as well as police honors on Saturday and I'm sure that's when it will finally hit home that dad is indeed gone. Pray for the family and especially my mom. They were married for 55 years and now mom will be without her husband and best friend! I know time heals all wounds, but it tears me apart inside when I see mom break down in tears over dad. Tim Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Les / Creative Edge Photo Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 You and yours truly have my condolences. As one who has lost loved ones, I say it will get easier and the memories will remain warm in your heart and mind. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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