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I have lost my wife

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This is probably the saddest message I will ever write here. Yesterday in the late afternoon, I lost my beautiful wife and soulmate Carolyn of the past 38 years. She passed away in her sleep unexpectedly at home. She had been ill for the past 26 years, having spent 1,836 days in 8 separate hospitals due to her Crohn's Disease, Breast Cancer and a host of other medical problems. I have been her 24/7 caregiver for two decades now and I am totally lost without her. I feel like a ship sailing without a compass. 

 

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Terry, I am so sorry for your loss. Don't know if you're a religious man but my prayers go out to you and yours in this time of pain. I can not begin to know what you're feeling but can only offer my best to you.

 

Bill

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I am so sorry for your loss Terry.

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1 hour ago, terrysumner said:

This is probably the saddest message I will ever write here. Yesterday in the late afternoon, I lost my beautiful wife and soulmate Carolyn of the past 38 years. She passed away in her sleep unexpectedly at home. She had been ill for the past 26 years, having spent 1,836 days in 8 separate hospitals due to her Crohn's Disease, Breast Cancer and a host of other medical problems. I have been her 24/7 caregiver for two decades now and I am totally lost without her. I feel like a ship sailing without a compass. 

 

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My heart goes out to you! Still it will get better for you. Feel free to reach out anytime

gary

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I don't have any words for you that would do any good. All I can do is offer my condolences and prayers that you will have peace through this horrible time. 

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Terry,

My condolences to you and your family, during this most difficult time. We will be praying

for God to provide and comfort you with your needs.

 

Revelation 21:4

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death' or mourning or crying

or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.

 

The Underdog and family

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Terry, you and yours have my prayers and sympathies.

 

-Gregg

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My condolences for your loss.

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My heart breaks for you to lose your loving soulmate of so long, and I couldn't even begin to imagine the pain you must feel.

 

I will keep you in my prayers, and please know you and your family have my condolences.

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Oh my...I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

 

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Don

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Very sorry for your loss, Terry.  My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

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Makes one realize most of our daily issues are truly trivial.  
 

Terry, I know words don’t mean much from a guy you never met, but I’m so very sorry for your loss.   Hang in there, as others have noted, it will get better for you with time.  

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I am gutted by this news.  She was a beautiful angel inside and out.

 

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So sorry to hear this news.  I know I would be lost to without my wife.

 

 

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Terry,

 

I can't begin to imagine the grief and sense of loss you are feeling right now.  Please accept my deepest sympathies during this most difficult time.

 

Sincerely,

 

Mike

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Terry, I don't know you other than as another poster on this board. However, that was one of the hardest things I've ever read. I am deeply sorry for your loss and I know nothing I could say will console you. Please know that as one brother to another, I stand with you. I also send my deepest condolences to you.

 

Rick

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Very sorry to hear of your loss Terry. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

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Terry,

So sorry to hear of your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this unthinkable time...

My deepest condolences....

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